PRIDE'S PURPOSE
BE AN EFFECTIVE ALLY
As a straight person, Pride was not created for you. Recognize and own that. While that doesn’t mean you can’t attend, take into consideration the following questions and recommendations in deciding to attend Pride.
This is not a comprehensive guide and is specific to Pride. PFLAG has created and published a recommended guide here.
Why do I want to attend Pride?
Mondays
4:30 pm
Examine why you want to attend a Pride march. If it is to get drunk and enjoy the party atmosphere that’s honestly not a great reason. There are plenty of non queer spaces that you can do that.
Do I know the history of Pride?
Tuesdays
10:00 am
Take some time to learn about the history of Pride and the gay liberation movement. You can start with my overview, but you should really go beyond that. Read a book, listen to a podcast, or watch a video.
What Pride am I attending and what is that supporting?
Saturdays
11:30 am
Read up on the worst practices of Pride and consider going to a more local or ‘alternative’ Pride event in a supportive manner. The Trans Day of Action actively seeks community safety volunteers to protect their transgender marchers.
Where is my money going?
Saturdays
11:30 am
Sure, you’re attending Pride and wearing rainbows. But what money have you spent on your clothes, drinks, and food? Supporting big businesses in the name of being an ally at a Pride march isn’t really supporting the queer community. Seek out queer owned businesses and support their livelihoods.
Am I an ‘ally’ on days other than Pride?
Saturdays
11:30 am
I’m sorry but you can’t call yourself an ally if you only show up to Pride. Being an ally means actively supporting the queer community 365 days a year. Read PFLAG’s guide to learn how to take your allyship further.